tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5032085751624604332024-02-18T19:08:53.000-07:00SLICE 2009Serve.Learn.Inspire.Change.EducateSLICE 2010http://www.blogger.com/profile/09115813967857623066noreply@blogger.comBlogger205125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-503208575162460433.post-22459868676511015512011-10-23T02:34:00.000-07:002011-10-23T02:35:27.609-07:00so sad :(AHHHH SOME HOW I JUST CAME ACROSS THIS!!!!<div>I MISS SLICE SOOOOO MUCH!!! :(</div>~Brandi Beaulieu~http://www.blogger.com/profile/18098086033253620591noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-503208575162460433.post-18987522552554022842009-04-07T11:23:00.001-07:002009-04-07T11:23:59.166-07:00San Diego<object width="425" height="344"><param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/suVL9UFSPIc&hl=en&fs=1&rel=0"></param><param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"></param><param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always"></param><embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/suVL9UFSPIc&hl=en&fs=1&rel=0" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowscriptaccess="always" allowfullscreen="true" width="425" height="344"></embed></object>Susan Fhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15837956961720252186noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-503208575162460433.post-53221574609003428802009-03-13T16:03:00.002-07:002009-03-13T16:21:03.951-07:00You must look within for value, but must look beyond for perspectiveHonestly, I forgot that we had to do a post this week. Better late then never.. maybe?<br /><br />Bringing together a wide variety of different perspectives for the sake of a common goal helps keep people from separating those perspectives as being something in the way of said goal. Hearing the same information from people whose knowledge and ideals match yours doesn't result in much forward progress, but involving many types of people can expand a person's on how they view an issue.<br /><br />The first example I thought of with people who seem to have nothing in common, but still work for a common goal was the ex-Klan member who works with a "a black lady [he] hated with a purple passion." They held a mutual mistrust but that gave way once their children were harassed for working with someone white/of colour, and ended up becoming close friends and bringing about change.<br /><br />I don't think I put myself in situations with persons of very different idea or lives very often. More often than not, I think I end up driven into the situations rather than me being the driver so-to-speak. Though it isn't much, I've been trying to talk to people more often so that I may strike up a good relationship with those who aren't so much of a mirror of myself.<br /><br /><br />"<span class="body">The longer we listen to one another - with real attention - the more commonality we will find in all our lives. That is, if we are careful to exchange with one another life stories and not simply opinions.<br />-Barbara Deming<br /></span>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-503208575162460433.post-70703409503096240542009-03-11T16:45:00.002-07:002009-03-11T16:49:45.739-07:00UbuntuThe story of the athiest woman reminded me of the Ubuntu movement throughout Africa. The word Ubuntu is a Zulu word which means all people are connected. I love that word because it is promoted heavily by Nelson Mandela of South Africa, he is part of the Xhosa tribe. South Africa is a country consisting of 11 official languages and tribes/races. South Africa has some of the bloodiest history ever known and some of the strongest racial discrimination, not only between whites and blacks but throughout tribes as well. What I love so much about Ubuntu is South Africa is despite all the differences they face, Nelson Mandela and Ubuntu are widely accepted.Damon.Cetrohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01975143544023932143noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-503208575162460433.post-11888954145149875222009-03-11T16:30:00.005-07:002009-03-11T16:57:17.907-07:00Come Together.....<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEij-WASR8KiytkKn0VCPvGJBbUSL1HVxZCeGCbB6WMNnVCGgGiKFIzLO9n1FEZIipzyrEVfDimy4pqnICYT45ZddRNlOj0f-mBD5A1TZWiv7h-vSN-ECAJQ4qZgu_5CDZtwNzfQxanjgzg/s1600-h/Flag%5B9%5D.jpg"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5312083483773602530" style="FLOAT: right; MARGIN: 0px 0px 10px 10px; WIDTH: 320px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 314px" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEij-WASR8KiytkKn0VCPvGJBbUSL1HVxZCeGCbB6WMNnVCGgGiKFIzLO9n1FEZIipzyrEVfDimy4pqnICYT45ZddRNlOj0f-mBD5A1TZWiv7h-vSN-ECAJQ4qZgu_5CDZtwNzfQxanjgzg/s320/Flag%5B9%5D.jpg" border="0" /></a><br /><div>Throughout this book it is obvious that as a society it is vital that we take the first step and stand up for what we believe in, to better our world. In Chapter 9, Loeb emphasis the importance to stand together, especially with those whose opinions differ from our own, in order to accomplish our tasks. When Loeb states, "The more we listen to those whose experiences and perspectives are unfamilir, the more we realize what draws us together," I believe he is saying that instead of viewing others opposing opinions as a threat we need to realize the similarities we share. Most people may become defensive when others opinions and perspectives differ from our own, but the reality is that we all share the passion and drive to stand up for our beliefs and take action to change. This passion is our most prized possession and if we take that and combined it with others we will create a strong force that can not be reckoned with. By combining our differences and banning together we could move mountains.</div><br /><div></div><br /><div>The story in the book that really inspired me of how people who generally might seem to have nothing in common worked together to make a positive change was about the Ku Klux Klan member C.P. Ellis. By joining the AFL-CIO labor organization to first voice his opinions of the blacks in the community. When he was nominated to cochair the group with a black lady, Ann Atwater, he was both mystified and filled with hatred. To his surprise the two developed commonality and became close friends as they worked together for a common goal. This is proof that even the most different of people can come together and that "we should never lose hope that a particular person can change.</div><br /><div></div><br /><div>I would have to say that in my own life I do not put myself in situations where I am exposed to people who may have very different ideas or lead very different lives than my own. Just like most we are attracted to those who we have commonality with, it makes it easier on us to complete tasks. But after reading this Chapter I see the importance of working with those who differ from us in order to expand our minds and experiences. I will try now to put myself into challenging and different experiences.</div>Jessica Wolfhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11548390181356661069noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-503208575162460433.post-43205409749671940242009-03-11T16:29:00.010-07:002009-03-11T16:58:58.278-07:00Obiettivo Comune<div align="justify"><span style="font-family:georgia;color:#666666;"><em><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgXZeYZ7c36FRBD7lYlS9YGHw7-r5-6D-3QfmusyETG9xD543ruZjFXlqy4xYEzFBL1fsCWKI8IQYyOTzxY_2sx0oAFdUqCAw9exiX8Ud2vjlrr-lM0EpGUpmyGxyXnm_2ur6cyJNtKa9PX/s1600-h/racismooo.bmp"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5312077660384250658" style="FLOAT: right; MARGIN: 0px 0px 10px 10px; WIDTH: 200px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 133px" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgXZeYZ7c36FRBD7lYlS9YGHw7-r5-6D-3QfmusyETG9xD543ruZjFXlqy4xYEzFBL1fsCWKI8IQYyOTzxY_2sx0oAFdUqCAw9exiX8Ud2vjlrr-lM0EpGUpmyGxyXnm_2ur6cyJNtKa9PX/s200/racismooo.bmp" border="0" /></a>Working with different groups that might not share your ideas in order to work on a social action could be difficult but not impossible. I think it is crucial to talk and listen to others so we can expose our ideas. Otherwise, these ideas or beliefs will just remain with the ones who support us and not with others that have different than ours.<br /></div></em></span><br /><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:georgia;color:#666666;"><em>An example that I really liked was of C. P. Ellis, a man who joined the Ku Klux Klan because even though he had worked hard, he was not able to go nowhere. For a long time, he organized angry groups and fought against school integration. During this time, he noticed that the city council members of the Klan called him up when they needed someone to shout down blacks but ignored him when they passed on the street. He felt he was being used by these people and something inside of him changed.<br /></em></span></div><br /><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:georgia;color:#666666;"><em>Ellis was invited to participate in the AFL-CIO labor organization and after some time, he became the co chair the group. Ellis worked along a black lady named Ann Atwater whom he “hated with a purple passion” in order to lead civil rights boycotts and protests. One day, both of their children came home crying because their parents were collaborating with the enemy. That is when Ellis understood that along with Anna they were sharing a commonality. Ever since then, they became good friends bringing young whites and blacks together against employers who had oppressed their common distrust.<br /></em></span></div><br /><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:georgia;color:#666666;"><em>Ellis changed his life and finally he worked for the benefit of those African American that were oppressed by members of the Klan. He had to work along people who did not share the same ideas as him but, at the end, he understood their point and started to work for their cause. I really do like his journey because he became the protector after being the aggressor and that is something really remarkable to recognize.<br /></em></span></div><br /><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:georgia;color:#666666;"><em>During my short life, I have seen people who lead very different lives than mine. From people who live in remote areas and in poor conditions to people who live in abundance. As a person that comes from another country, I been exposed to different lifestyles and customs. In addition, I have encountered people who have very different points of view in a certain subject than mine. I find that very interesting because once I listen to their views I am able not only to understand them better but also, I am able to compare my ideas and beliefs to theirs. This world is very diverse and if we could only be open minded we could be able to understand one another better.</em></span></div><br /><div align="justify"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5312077991293319698" style="DISPLAY: block; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 200px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 200px; TEXT-ALIGN: center" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj7hRUCOHWJHCOlYJiRUnQfpyn9xGXrMti29kVwu5Ro73FhVDO7oyZMlSVDZoEbYXNDI5HnlmeSQuW0uTsnUBXURCUr7OxWkPPPL-7-1QF3j1fCgsIIZXrZRl1gWbTBm-fFfalbx7Ye42KA/s200/diversidad.bmp" border="0" /></div><div align="center"><em><span style="color:#cccccc;">Photos by: <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/phinaphantasy/1797954963/">phinaphantasy</a> and <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/deestea/130262190/">Donna *deestea*</a></span></em></div>Alexa Yantashttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11210857062062167420noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-503208575162460433.post-13305944259915874142009-03-11T16:25:00.002-07:002009-03-11T16:32:00.454-07:00Understanding Makes Your Point Of View BETTER!We all have our own view of the world as we grow up. When we are young we think that our parents are the smartest all knowing beings in this universe. We copy everything they say share the same thoughts and are even put into the same religion. As we grow older we start seeing that they are not perfect and that we are not always wrong and we reach the point where we think everything we do or say is right because our own little stupid rationalizations. <br />Then we reach the present where we start to question our own believes. I have personally chosen to be atheis for example because of my own reasons. I came to have my own reasons only because I understood where other people are coming from and used all these point of views to make what i believe to be the most educated decision. We all have to widen our horizons and in order to do this we have to see other point of views which is one of the things that makes this class and experience so special.JeovaniAlonsohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01588221766329521837noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-503208575162460433.post-46830537171048788672009-03-11T16:21:00.004-07:002009-03-11T22:47:58.409-07:00Embrace each other's differences<div><span style="color:#33ccff;">Dang it. I just realized that, once again, my post did not go through. So here it is for the second time:<br /><em>"The more we listen to those whose experiences ane perspectives are unfamiliar, the more we realize what draws us together."</em> I think that what Loeb ment by this statement was that we all need to embrace each other's differences and accept each other for who we are, and, in return, we will learn so much. This quote reminds me of the very common phrase of: "opposites attract." <img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5312173866592172674" style="DISPLAY: block; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 320px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 271px; TEXT-ALIGN: center" alt="" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_Bd8X9OAVwKE/Sbih_I9W-oI/AAAAAAAAAA4/eLtnYnHqDAs/s320/vsh0632l.jpg" border="0" /><br />Because when we meet new people, they may be the complete opposites of us, however, for some reason or another, we become closer to each other. We need to enjoy other's differences and learn from them. If all we did every day was hang out with people who were EXACTLY like us, it would be so boring and we would never learn anything new. Instead, we need to talk to those who have different perspectives than us and who have gone through different experiences and we will learn so much from them!</span></div>~Brandi Beaulieu~http://www.blogger.com/profile/18098086033253620591noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-503208575162460433.post-89900820796428855512009-03-11T16:07:00.005-07:002009-03-11T20:41:20.281-07:00YOU DIFFERENT, I DIFFERENT TOO BUT WE SPEAK SAME LANGUAGEI love the way the chapter was introduced. It stated that encountering people with different point and taking on issues that we are not familiar with makes "<span style="font-style: italic;">issues once at margin of our vision become the focus of our live. </span><span>it brings to perspective issues that we might not have really understood to become more clear and give us a sense of direction. This is particularly exemplified in the Hazel Wolf story and how she became involved with the environmental movement.</span><span style="font-style: italic;"> </span>Loeb said that "<span style="font-style: italic;">upon accepting the challenge of trying to shape a different future, we feel a sense of larger purpose".</span> This is I think is the reason for taking on issue that are different from yours. Because you learn from them. You get to widen your horizon and gain new understanding of people and issues surrounding you. I have come to experience and understand other groups apart from the one's I am involved in by taking on their ideas and interacting with them. We are all different and like it says in the book, groups that exclude others are not communities but are cliques. That is a road block to the sense of community and so we cannot move forward if we don't pass that barrier.. I especially love the story about C.P. Ellis and how he changed from being a Ku Klux Klan Exalted Cyclops to fighting community issues with a black woman he despised at first. This was because he learnt to take the idea about others and that which we do not understand through working with them and not through separation. We all have our individualistic ideas and point of view but when we focus on just those, we get to miss the greater blessing we might experience by interacting with those different from us. Through a Global leadership retreat, i got to experience and understand the Vietnamese Culture and way of life. We all have our own different languages(views) but we can not let ourselves be restricted by it. Learning a new languages(way of life) exposes us to better opportunities in life.Gozie Ibejihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12635223503394421947noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-503208575162460433.post-10191897353780481792009-03-11T15:56:00.001-07:002009-03-11T16:00:38.903-07:00Yunus<div align="center"><span style="font-family:arial;font-size:85%;color:#ffcccc;"><strong>"We cannot break through with new concepts if we are still stuck with old mindsets. That is why the youth have to think big, think ambitiously and think with courage,"<br /> unknown<br />There are couple stories that grabbed my attention. One was being Julia Devin story, in which her joining an effort brought threat to her actions and jeopardized relationships in order to meet her vision in El Salvador. Her actions inspired people in to not losing hope in the human spirit. As well, as Klansmen C.P. Ellis, by giving him an opportunity he eventually altered his life perception. People that are interested in progressive social change need to explor different issues, ideas, solutions, organizing, methods, challenges and opportunities. <br /><br />Couple months ago I read a book by Muhammad Yunus a </strong></span><span style="font-family:arial;font-size:85%;color:#ffcccc;"><strong>Nobel Peace Prize </strong></span><span style="font-family:arial;font-size:85%;color:#ffcccc;"><strong>winner, Bangladesh banker and economist. He is the innovator of micro credit, a program that is responsible for improving poverty of millions of individuals. He talks about overcoming others’ initial pessimism about microcredit. He challenges corporations and individuals to become agents of change for a better global economy. He describes strategies for building bridges between business success and social change. One of his accomplishments was partnering up with food processor Danone creating a healthy yogurt that helped malnutrition kids in Bangladesh. Grameen has also launched a number of joint ventures with major corporations one being with Intel in creating information technology for the poor. Lastly he has overcome huge obstacles in his efforts to alleviate poverty in his country. When banks refused to grant loans to the poor for lack of reliable security, Mr Yunus came forward and offered himself as a reliable sponsor. Very soon, he was able to change the pattern of loan grants in his country by introducing quick and easy methods to obtain loans. I believe collaboration between people is essential to the success for resolving social issues in our society. One cannot do with out the other.</strong></span></div>Israel Monterohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15768573734186903951noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-503208575162460433.post-18463379742134973632009-03-11T15:49:00.003-07:002009-03-11T16:11:55.020-07:00Shut up!If you just listen to someone you don't particularly seem to agree with, you might find that not everything they say is just about trying to appose you. You might find some common ground if you listen. When you listen to them, they are more likely to listen to you and it'll be easier to compromise. I went to a few student government meetings at school last semester to represent the Spanish club on campus and felt a lot of tension between certain people. Someone at the table told us(the Spanish club reps) to appose everything that one of the other members had proposed just because they didn't listen to them in the past when they proposed something. The 2 members of the meeting seemed to be at each others throats just because of dislike. They didn't listen to each others concerns, just the parts they could argue about. On the flip side, our club listened and brought up concerns from both sides. Even though we just reiterated what was already said, it made them less hostile and the conflicts were resolved. Though the author seems to be anti conservative, he found that not every issue they present is against his own views. He was able to find some common ground. So, just listen every once and a while.Susan Fhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15837956961720252186noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-503208575162460433.post-26295488585229024422009-03-11T15:47:00.011-07:002009-03-11T17:02:37.160-07:00It's just terrible what they did to Pluto...it is still a planet to me!<span style="color: rgb(153, 102, 51);">What a fascinating concept in this chapter! I love what Loeb said as well as the way he says it.<br /></span><br /><br /><span style="color: rgb(153, 102, 51);">"The more we listen to those who's experiences and perspectives are unfamiliar, the more we realize what draws us together."</span> <span style="color: rgb(153, 102, 51);"><br /><br /><br />This is just such a great idea, in my opinion. It sort of touches on the importance of stories in a previous chapter as well. What this statement says to me is that we can find common ground between us all when we take the time to learn to understand one another. It is a matter of perspective. I see it sort of like this: we are all looking at this strange sculpture at the same time, but from different angles, and in these different angles we see something that is unlike what we can see from any other point of view.</span><br /><span style="color: rgb(153, 102, 51);"><br /><br />In this metaphor, I suppose the sculpture would be Life and we come to these different angles through the experiences that make us who we are. We are all unique creatures that have lived unique lives granting us our own unique view point, seeing something different in the same sculpture! I know this is a considerably abstract thought here (and Enrique, I'm just certain you've already rolled your eyes more times than I can count) but try to follow me on this. If we learn to understand each other, learn how it is that they have come to look at the sculpture from their angle, then we just might become able to see from their point of view and then we realize that they are seeing the same sculpture that we</span><span style="color: rgb(153, 102, 51);"> are! This similarity brings us together and bridges a bond to create a sense of togetherness. To me, this is such an important aspect of life. I feel as though Leob is saying when we learn to appreciate and understand each other's perspectives in life, we grow closer together.</span> <span style="color: rgb(153, 102, 51);"><br /><br /><br />In this chapter, this concept is well exemplified in the story of Ms. Hazel Wolf. I really liked her story; she just seemed so fiery and passionate and lively through the illustrations in her youth or older days! One particular portion of her story talks about how she had brought together environmental groups, church associations and Native American tribes for a conference. (She was 81 at the time, a great reminder that age does </span><span style="color: rgb(153, 102, 51);">not stop us from doing </span><span style="font-style: italic; color: rgb(153, 102, 51);">something</span><span style="color: rgb(153, 102, 51);"> to make a difference.) After teasing one of the Native Americans a bit, he and Hazel end up becoming close friends and continue to work very well together in the years that followed. This illustrates how these two undoubtedly different people were able to come together in spite of their differences because their shared a common desire, which in this story was to block an oil port off the Washington coast. Very cool.</span> <span style="color: rgb(153, 102, 51);"><br /><br /><br />Having said that Loeb's above concept was so important to me personally, it shouldn't come as a surprise that I place myself in situations where I am around those of different view points on a regular basis. Whether it is in a class, on the light rail or in Hayden library, I tend to at least attempt to strike up conversations with interesting</span><span style="color: rgb(153, 102, 51);"> people to try and get a glimpse of the sculpture from their vantage point.<br /><br /><br />For instance, a couple of weeks ago, I began talking with a gentleman who called himself John on the light rail. He had just said good bye to two men after a conversation about decent homeless shelters that the two men could possibly get to that evening. John told me all about how he was homeless for awhile and learned the insides and outs of living on the streets, knowing where to go for food, water, shelter, drugs and booze as well as other forms of...entertainment. He went on and on until finally I said the most obvious thing I could think of, commenting on how he now looked anything </span><span style="font-style: italic; color: rgb(153, 102, 51);">but</span><span style="color: rgb(153, 102, 51);"> homeless, let alone a user or a drunk. He then told me about a brief, maybe 5 minute talk with some stranger that smiled in a kind way at him one day, regardless of John's physical state of being that hot summer afternoo</span><span style="color: rgb(153, 102, 51);">n; John said he looked "about as nasty as a cracked out, starving swine that was baking under the Phoenix sun, but this fool still shot me a smile. And he meant it." It was incredible hearing about the emotions John felt in the instant that the stranger looked John's way; he told me he felt embarrassed, depressed, selfish, suprised but most of all, he felt angry that any man could be so joyful in life while John, who was going day after day pretending he was happy with his life style that was being lived "in servitude to the almighty </span><span style="font-style: italic; color: rgb(153, 102, 51);">powders </span><span style="color: rgb(153, 102, 51);">that be." John told me that he asked the guy how he could be so full of happiness and the man spoke with him, genuinely and straight foward without </span><span style="font-style: italic; color: rgb(153, 102, 51);">any</span><span style="color: rgb(153, 102, 51);"> fear or lying in him about his life and the decisions he had made. John said that from that day on, his life was changed, because that man had opened John's eyes and taught him how to see life from his perspective. I really cannot describe what an incredible event that conversation with John was to me. I met this kind, well dressed, $200 watch wearing man on the light rail who had lived </span><span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(153, 102, 51);">such</span><span style="color: rgb(153, 102, 51);"> a differen</span><span style="color: rgb(153, 102, 51);">t live than I have lived so far, yet still I found a common grounds, a beginning of camaraderie between myself and John within our twenty minute conversation. It is amazing to me how learning to see the sculpture from other's angles and learning why they see it from that angle really does bring us together.<br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /></span><span style="color: rgb(153, 102, 51);">Oh, and about the title. Totally random, I know</span><span style="color: rgb(153, 102, 51);">. Couldn't really come up with something that encompassed all that I said here. And the following sentence is for those who didn't read my blog, since you'll never know I am talking about you: </span><span style="font-style: italic; color: rgb(153, 102, 51);font-family:lucida grande;" >"How long is it going to take in our society to see a person with an eye patch and <span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(255, 0, 0);">not</span><span style="color: rgb(255, 0, 0);"> </span>assume that they are a pirate? I just saw a guy with a suit and a breif case, but he had an eye patch so all I saw was 'YARRR!' "</span><br /><br /><br /><a style="color: rgb(153, 102, 51);" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://farm4.static.flickr.com/3032/3013609895_e75be5f2ca.jpg"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 363px; height: 255px;" src="http://farm4.static.flickr.com/3032/3013609895_e75be5f2ca.jpg" alt="" border="0" /></a><br /><br /><br /><span style="color: rgb(153, 102, 51);font-size:85%;" ><span style="font-family:courier new;">Tyler :]</span></span> <span style="color: rgb(153, 102, 51);font-family:";font-size:12;" > </span>TylerMitchellhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00743208820710791016noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-503208575162460433.post-30342457055302985642009-03-11T15:45:00.002-07:002009-03-11T15:54:09.468-07:00Put aside your differences!!One example I read from the book where people who have nothing in common still work together for the greater good, was with atheist, Hazel Wolf, who spoke about being atheist. She also worked to get people of different backgrounds, wether it be religion, race, genger, or sexual orientation, she managed to get them to work together. One example of when I've had this experience was while I was in Mexico with my school building houses for the poor. Not all of us liked each other, some of the girls and guys had major drama between them, but as soon as they stepped foot onto the site to work, they put all differences aside and worked as a team to better the lives of others.<br />Sorry this was so short and sweet...but I'm really in a hurry....but I hope you still enjoy!!Brittney Hobaicahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02386468312660314245noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-503208575162460433.post-17240383849498077182009-03-11T15:43:00.004-07:002009-03-11T17:55:09.711-07:00"Our similarities bring us to a common ground; our differences allows us to be fascinated by each other." -Tom Robbins<span style="color:#ff6666;"><span style="font-family:times new roman;">We all view the world through our own windows. Our age, background, culture, experiences, race, sex, religion, etc. make us all unique from each other. We are naturally drawn to those who share similar interests, affiliations, and experiences; while, unfortunately, naturally repelled by those who disagree. We are all bias and often fall captive to judging and stereotyping. Much of the time, we lose sight of what we're actually fighting for. Controversy is no longer over what is right or wrong; it is over who wins and who loses. We all, at one point, have had that, "I'm right, whether I'm right or wrong" or the "I'm right because I say so" mentality. We're stubborn, and sometimes we won't "pull back the curtains on our own windows" to better view the world. </span><br /><span style="font-family:times new roman;"></span><br /><span style="font-family:times new roman;">Someone is always going to disagree, but at the same time there is no one that disagrees with everyone. Finding smaller commonalities may ease more popular differences. </span><br /><span style="font-family:times new roman;">If nothing else, we must agree that: </span><br /></span><ul><li><span style="font-family:times new roman;color:#ff6666;">We're not always right.</span></li><li><span style="font-family:times new roman;color:#ff6666;">There may not be one "right" solution to every problem.</span></li><li><span style="font-family:times new roman;color:#ff6666;">In general, we think/act the way we do because we hope it will help <em>someone</em> (whether it be selfish or not). </span></li></ul><span style="color:#ff6666;"><span style="font-family:times new roman;">C.P. Ellis and Ann Artwater proved the strength of even the slightest of unities. Even one of the greatest and most controversial differences between the two could not break the hidden bond they shared as parents. It took their children being persecuted on the same basis, for Ellis and Artwater to finally look past their backgrounds and work together. Unbelievably, the high ranked KKK member, Ellis, learned to work harmoniously with the black woman activist, Artwater. Their friendship and Ellis's later work with poor whites <strong>and</strong> blacks displayed an encouraging example to all of society. We all share some common ground; if we can find it, we can grow on it, and the possibilities for positive change are endless. </span><br /><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;"></span><br /><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;">-Morgan</span><br /></span><span style="font-family:times new roman;"></span>Morgan Baugushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06332719386775487599noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-503208575162460433.post-20157741226509705042009-03-11T15:41:00.000-07:002009-03-11T15:42:26.060-07:00there's always a spark that's redeemableI particularly found the story of Julia Devin very interesting and inspiring. The story talks about Julia’s struggle alongside a physician and an activist to obtain medical neutrality in El Salvador during the turmoil years of civil war. She and her comrades decided to talk with the US military commanders whose actions were endangering the innocent lives. They had the courage to speak with such intimidating authorities about the complex issue. Her efforts helped to reach a medical neutrality agreement which was a step towards peace. I agree with Julia when she says that, “everyone has a spark inside them that’s redeemable, even if they’ve never done a single decent act in their lives.” This belief helped her overcome the challenging task of dealing and reaching an agreement with the “enemy.” This means that even if a person might seem unchangeable, there’s still a chance for change inside them.<br />I think life is full of situations where one meets somebody whose ideas and beliefs are the complete opposite. Situations like during physics class where you debate about what formula to use, you think you’re right, your classmate thinks they are right. Who’s wrong, who’s right? The only way is to interact with each other, learn and understand the problem and find the solution. Taking the step forward to deal with people who have a completely different ideal than you might sometimes become overwhelming. However, a simple gesture of understanding and willingness to both share and listen can be the small step taken towards reaching an agreement.ricardoreyeshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06727529418035454601noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-503208575162460433.post-67830215644483863672009-03-11T15:39:00.000-07:002009-03-11T15:40:17.955-07:00Un VozMany meanings could be gleaned from the statement "The more we listen to those who experiences and perspectives are unfamiliar, the more we realize what draws us together." One that jumps out at me: In the context of social activism and possible conflict between participant groups, while different parties will always hold different values and views, the connecting fiber is the desire to create positive change and the passion to pursue that end. This for me is the commonality that all social activists must remain aware of.<br /><br />Another possible interpretation: Through listening to unfamiliar perspectives and experiences we find that the people sharing them are not themselves unfamiliar or strange. The common truth of the human experience exists in every story. It is this central element, this basic connection between us, which is a stand-alone benefit of confronting and evaluating the experiences of others. Loeb alluded to this same fact earlier in his book when he discussed the call of stories.<br /><br />And yet one third thing that occurs to me about this quote: Again something I feel Loeb touched on earlier is the idea that the direct experience described is both the means and the end. That is to say, the very courage, open-mindedness, and common respect that is needed to listen to something aversive or unfamiliar is what draws us together. In being open and willing to listen, we are both learning and learned, accomplishing and accomplished.<br /><br />A specific story from this chapter comes to mind when looking for an example of “opposites” coming together for positive change. The story was that of the UJO and El Puente activist groups who had a long history of conflict and misunderstanding. However, when a towering incinerator was to be built near their community, they were able to put aside differences and work together in opposing it. Although the book does not elucidate on this fact, I would bet that after the work the two groups had a much better relationship and a better understanding of each other. To get conspiracy-theory for a moment: It is important that those who choose to become socially active and create a positive change in this world remember who the “enemy” is. The “powers that be” would love nothing more than for socially-minded people to get bogged down in battling each other. This leaves much less energy to be directed at “them.” So, while addressing social injustice is a passionate endeavor that inspires us to raise a strong voice, we must be careful not to drown eachother in the din of ever-rising argument. This is why I talk earlier in this post about finding that commonality, of understanding that beneath incidental differences in opinion there is much more that makes us the same than that makes us different.<br /><br />Being a fairly confident, open-minded person, I put special effort into approaching those who seem to hold radically different views, values, or opinions from my own. I love knowledge, and I firmly believe that for mankind as a species to move forward we must do away with misinformation, assumptions, and false judgment. The best way to do this, as Loeb argues, is by exposure! Get out there, mix it up, speak your mind, listen fully, and never ever be afraid of being wrong! One of my absolute favorite experiences these days is to find out I am really, really wrong about something! It opens up new possibilities, enriches me as a person, and helps eliminate my own misinformation.of.cedarshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08412005564651803917noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-503208575162460433.post-39532618551167743892009-03-11T15:38:00.002-07:002009-03-11T15:53:01.819-07:00Common GroundI liked the story of Hazel, the athiest humanitarian who was once involved in supporting communism. Her story tells us we can be from different religious and socio/polictical backgrounds, but our underlying desires and responsibilities to help each other and take care of the world are the same. As far as putting myself in unfamiliar situations with people I consider very different from myself, I've only just begun experiencing that. I think it takes a certain amount of self confidence to become curious enough to break down those barriers that keep up from experiencing something new. Our service sites in Phoenix have been experiences outside anything I've ever done. I've never worked with "at risk" kids before, but they act like any other middle school kid I've met. They were a really inspiring group of kids, though, because they were at their community center voluntarily. Not many suburban middle school kids would make a weekly or biweekly commitment to work on life skills.Katy Lockharthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16445439427458678276noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-503208575162460433.post-19346903187686255472009-03-11T15:30:00.001-07:002009-03-11T15:30:22.605-07:00A strangley isolated place"The more we listen to those who experiences and perspectives are unfamiliar, the more we realize what draws us together" I think he means that when we listen to the stories of other's experiences we can relate them to our own stories and can realize how similar our journeys are.<br />For putting myself into a place where I have to participate with people with views and lives very different than my own, the most recent would be this SLICE class. I myself live a very different and somewhat nontraditional life, but I am very fortunate of my upbringing by my parents. I was raised having very independent and very open-minded views. I was also raised in very educational environment. So being who I am and what I think from what I have experienced and what I enjoy in life seems to be, by no understatement, tremendously different from anyone else in the class. I feel sort of out of place, in a way. I like the people in the class and all, but I still feel misunderstood. I always do in public crowds as so. I see reactions of people when I'm just casually talking and making a joke, but it seems like (to me) that my views and humor are a bit unique compared to most. At times I feel like people need to chill out and lighten up. I get uncomfortable when I am relaxed and other people seem tense or uneasy. I try to make others comfortable by showing them that I am relaxed and at ease, but it does not always seem to work out, but whose to expect it to work on everyone?<br />My father told me one of his fears is being in a room full of people he does not know; but to me I like being anonymous in a room, blending in with the crowd to observe all the others. But when it's crowds like these where there's group interaction, it's pleasing to meet new people and hear and see their views and ideas. I like to hear how others have lived and managed through their lives so far and compare that to my own story.Tzimhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13938983254357850197noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-503208575162460433.post-49789696366916589972009-03-11T15:20:00.003-07:002009-03-11T15:53:33.734-07:00Educating Ourselves Is A Step Towards Change<span style="font-family:verdana;color:#6666cc;"><strong>I think that change comes to the sole fact of education. Many people judge the world without truly knowing the issues that are occurring in our society. We judge people based on how the media portrays them, instead of learning about their culture first hand or by people that study different cultures. The things I have learned from the stories and experiences of interaction with different people has truly opened my eyes and allowed me to see how diverse our world truly is. Between the Global Leadership Retreat I attended and the Equiss Retreat the education that I got from everyone showed me all the positives of our diversity. We as society always talk about how boring our world would be if it was just one gray blob, so then why do we just someone because of their color and culture? We all have something too give to this world, some might be good others maybe bad, but why prejudge someone, off of this I think that there are many positives then to allowing different cultures to work together allowing the education process to occur, but not by the biased media, but by someone who lives the culture every day.. The culture in American is always changing and people continue to carry their traditions from generation to generation, so I believe if we take more positive steps to understanding each other we will be able to conquer so much more. So be a positive change and educate yourself, because that is the first step to creating a better world.</strong></span>Ana Chandlerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14983398966182889150noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-503208575162460433.post-10513383567734900982009-03-11T15:13:00.002-07:002009-03-11T15:45:13.615-07:00"Common Air, Common Ground"<span style="font-family:georgia;font-size:85%;color:#ffccff;">When Leob states, "The more we listen to those whos experiences and perspectives are unfamiliar, the more we realize what draws us together," I think he means we must speak to other people who share different views in order to understand the "common ground" we share.</span><br /><span style="font-family:georgia;font-size:85%;color:#ffccff;"></span><br /><span style="font-family:georgia;font-size:85%;color:#ffccff;">In the story of the Brooklyn Navy Yard, three grougs came together because they realized their families not only shared litteraly the air and the ground, but they shared other similar opinions on various issues as well. Because the members of the UJO, Puerto Ricans, and Dominicans all came together, they not only were good role models to their children, but they were protecting the earth they had to share as well. From there, they were able to work together on other issues they shared, all by finding their common ground.</span><br /><span style="font-family:georgia;font-size:85%;color:#ffccff;"></span><br /><span style="font-family:georgia;font-size:85%;color:#ffccff;">Personally, I love this story and wish I could do it more often. Although I do listen to people who may have different perspectives or views than I do, I sometimes find my self automatically thinking of all the negatives (in my opinion) of their side of the story. It's something I'm working on and I'm sure something many people struggle with. As I'm finding and growing my spiritual self, this struggle is slowing disappearing. Yet, reading this chapter I have found how important it is to have this spiritual self, because without it, "we're left disconnected and mistrusting" (pg. 227). Putting yourself in situations where you may not share similar ideas is often refreshing and hopefully something our society can work towards. By understanding other people, we are likely to solve many problems, but the first step is putting ourselves in an awkward situation. Working towards a goal that is all for the <em>common</em> good.</span>Alyssa Huffhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07293644931184293381noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-503208575162460433.post-53959539710991947752009-03-11T14:37:00.000-07:002009-03-11T14:38:22.876-07:00working together<span style="color:#ffffcc;">I hardly ever put myself in positions where I don’t agree with people, mainly because who likes to deal with drama and the stubbornness of others when they already deal with themselves? I do, however, see what Loeb is saying. You can get a lot out of learning your “opponents” beliefs. In Emerging Leaders I learned a lot about controversy with civility. By working with other people’s points of views you can broaden your knowledge of the topic and work together towards that one goal, “change”. I don’t necessarily think that I will become best friends with those who go against my beliefs but I do admire them for their passion and their knowledge. In the book, there are several stories of unlikely allies. One example is that of the Friends of Earth working with the National Taxpayers Union. Both don’t work hand in hand, but the Green Scissors Coalition brought them together and they ended up targeting ecologically damaging corporate welfare projects. They took two companies who would never go together and made change. I believe it is possible to do a lot more when EVERYONE works together. I know this sounds cliché but it’s true. Setting aside differences to work for a common goal would bring about change in so many ways.</span>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-503208575162460433.post-37648502037193153132009-03-11T13:50:00.005-07:002009-03-11T14:06:08.401-07:00REACH OUT........"The more we listen to those who experiences and perspectives are unfamiliar, the more we realize what draws us together"? If we are unable to branch out of our own security, we may never discover the new and exciting relationships that we can develop with people who can teach us new things. Many, if not all of us tend to make a pre-judgements about others before we even have a chance to talk with them. We might take a few nervous steps back because someone looks unique or presents themselves in a different manner. If we are not able to take those steps towards getting to know new pepople then we may never have the chance to see how similar we may actually be. I believe that knowing a variety of people really does make a difference about how you looks at life and its situations. This SLICE program is the perfect opportunity to step out of your comfort and get to know those whom you may never have taken a second look at because we sometimes fear the unfamiliar. My favorite example from this chapter would have to be Hazel Wolf's story. Although someone views religion differently than I do, there is no harm is being defensive and making assumptions. Tall or short, young or old, black or white, we all have a right to be who we are, but we are all still people that deserve to be treated with kindness. I challenge you all to step outside of that comfort zone on this trip and make a new friend in California, friendships can travel across the states just as easily as we can! Game on!Kelsey Hugheshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01518320168516328186noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-503208575162460433.post-10370380657489269092009-03-11T13:50:00.004-07:002009-03-11T14:00:54.717-07:00Nothing risked; Nothing gained!I have never been a person who is comfortable putting myself in situations where I don't know the people around me. Especially when we don't share the same interests. The older I get the more I realize, I will not know what I have in common with people or how one person can change your life unless I take myself out of my comfort zone and talk with new people. One example of taking myself out of my comfort zone and surrounding myself with people I don't know is this class trip we will be taking during spring break. I am extremely excited and nervous at the same time. I look forward to getting to know new people and seeing the impacts this has on my life.Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-503208575162460433.post-82986769520117475732009-03-11T13:40:00.001-07:002009-03-11T13:41:21.481-07:00Falling into ThingsI frequently put myself out there, and exposing myself to different people. I tend to be fairly spontaneous and will decide things at the last minute. In high school, me joining drama was a moment of spontaneity for me and I practically fell into it. It was just before my junior year of high school and I was picking out my classes, most of my classes were AP and Honors classes and I had one elective credit left. I knew by looking at my schedule that signing up for another academic would have driven me insane, but there weren’t any electives that I really wanted to take that year. I had seen how completely wild the drama students were, but I remembered how much I enjoyed acting as a child, so at the last minute, I threw drama onto my preliminary schedule and turned it in. I figured it wouldn’t even fit into my schedule. I got to school on the first day, and it had some how fit into my schedule. When I get to class there are a bunch of freshman running around and one guy talking in a Scottish accent and everything else. I didn’t know anyone. For most of the semester, I was considered the shy, quiet honors student, but none of them even cared. I got to the point where as nervous as I was about performing (especially not having the proper amount of time to memorize it, due to insane amounts of other homework) I grew to enjoy the class.<br /><br />My second semester schedule didn’t work out and had one opening in it, so literally while sitting in the counselor’s office discussing my schedule, I decided to sign up for Technical Theatre. I loved it! I was building set pieces, painting, playing games, working in teams, working with lighting and sound – everything that I couldn’t do in any of academic classes. It wasn’t long until I joined the stage crew for the musical – once again last minute – and the girl who was supposed to be in charge, ended up passing that job to me, so my first show I was in charge of half the stage. The experience was stressful and chaotic and absolutely amazing. My senior year I practically lived in the theatre and worked on seven shows.<br /><br />I met so many people with so many backgrounds, yet we were all drawn to the same exact thing. I grew to understand people that I originally thought were strange. It’s one of those things that I will always remember.Steph Craighttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00118203157676576036noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-503208575162460433.post-19160586161389841752009-03-11T12:06:00.005-07:002009-03-11T13:05:38.997-07:00WALK IN MY SHOES<span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 102);"><span style="font-size:130%;">"The more we listen to those </span></span><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 102);"><span style="font-size:130%;">whose experiences and perspectives are unfamiliar, the more we realize what draws us together."<br /><br />This is a very strong statement. It brings me back to the saying, "before you criticize someone, you should walk a mile in their shoes." Other individuals experiences and perspectives are important to hear out in order to stay true and committed to your own beliefs. They can even help us to grow stronger in what we believe in or help us to see it from a different angel that c</span></span><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 102);"><span style="font-size:130%;">an change our thoughts completely. "Don't judge a book by it's cover," is also a good example. In my experience, people are all different and unique in their own special ways. However, if you take the time to look deep enough, you are most likely guaranteed to find something the two of you have in common. Even if it's the smallest little thing, there is something to be found. <br /><br />The first sentence of chapter nine says, "Even when we build on the foundation of our existing values and knowledge, social involvement helps us enter new worlds." This is completely true because taking t</span></span><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 102);"><span style="font-size:130%;">he time to get involved teaches us life lessons that we could never find somewhere else. </span></span><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 102);"><span style="font-size:130%;">We discover new ideas that are so far outside of our comfort zone just because we took the time to see what else is out there. We cannot expand our vision without taking </span></span><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 102);"><span style="font-size:130%;">necessary action. The book states that this only happens when we place ourselves in circumstances that require us to view our efforts and ourselves with new eyes. It is important to silence our own voice in order to find those </span></span><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 102);"><span style="font-size:130%;">similarities that connect us with others. We have to listen with an open mind and be willing to change. Yes, this is true. You might not always be right! Strive to understand the world outside of your own.<br /><br />The story that stood out to me was not the Atheist story, but the Common Air, Common Ground sto</span></span><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 102);"><span style="font-size:130%;">ry. People of all different cultures, who hadn't agreed in the past, came together for a common cause. The United Jewish Organization and the Puerto Ricans and Dominicans were all very different people. However, they found a passion and even added to their diversity, in order to take a stand for what they believe in. The health of their children was a top priority for each and every one of them. I also really enjoyed the fishermen story incorporated into it. God is good!<br /><br />School is a perfect place where I am surrounded by people who hold different beliefs than I do. Even though I jump at any chance to share my faith with people (under permitting circumstances) sometimes you have to put your own opinions aside for the good of everyone. There are plenty of occasions when I spend time with people that have very different ideas, however, I have a solid foundation. Therefore, I know right from wrong. I know what I believe in and what goes against my beliefs.<br /></span></span>AshleeHendersonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03279983627565483831noreply@blogger.com1